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Is Self-Care Advice for Burnt-Out Nurses a Form of Gaslighting?

Yoga sessions and wellbeing apps are offered to nurses who cannot get a break. Helpful or insulting?

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Edited by Joshua Adebanjo, RN

Exhausted nurse sitting in a hospital stairwell with head in hands

When nurses are burnt out, employers often offer wellbeing apps, mindfulness sessions and resilience training. Some nurses find them helpful. Others say it is like being handed an umbrella in a flood that the employer keeps causing.

The question: Does telling nurses to practise self-care shift the blame for burnout from employers to individuals?

Why self-care advice can feel like gaslighting

  • Burnout is driven mainly by workload, staffing and leadership, not by individual weakness.
  • “Resilience” training can imply nurses are failing to cope.
  • Wellbeing sessions held after a shift with no break feel like another task.
  • It can distract from fixing the real problems.

Why self-care still matters

  • Sleep, food, movement and support do protect mental health.
  • Nurses can benefit from coping skills while campaigning for change.
  • Some wellbeing services, like counselling, are genuinely helpful.
  • Waiting for systems to change can take years.

What the evidence says

Research consistently finds that the biggest drivers of nurse burnout are organisational: staffing levels, workload, the work environment and leadership. Individual interventions such as mindfulness show small benefits, while changes to staffing and the work environment have a larger effect.

The bottom line

Self-care is not the problem; using it instead of safe staffing is. The best employers do both, and nurses are entitled to ask which one is being offered.

Related: What nurses really do on their days off · Compassion fatigue vs burnout

Where do you stand? Tell us in the comments. We read every one, and the best answers may feature in a follow-up article.

Source: Systematic reviews of nurse burnout interventions, including Dall’Ora et al., Human Resources for Health (2020).

Joshua Ibukunoluwa Adebanjo

Founder & Editor-in-Chief

Joshua Ibukunoluwa Adebanjo

RN, RM, RPHN, BNSc (Obafemi Awolowo University)

Joshua is a registered nurse, midwife and public health nurse with clinical experience at Obafemi Awolowo University Teaching Hospitals Complex. He founded Nursing Media Network to give nurses worldwide trustworthy news, career guidance and a stronger public voice, and leads its editorial direction.

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