150 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend: Fun, Deep, Romantic and Serious Questions to Grow Closer

The best relationships are built on curiosity. Asking good questions shows her you care about who she really is, not just the surface. Use these 150 questions on date nights, long drives, video calls or quiet evenings at home.

Fun questions to ask your girlfriend

1. What’s the funniest thing that’s ever happened to you?
2. If you could live in any film or series, which one?
3. What’s your most embarrassing childhood memory?
4. What’s your go-to comfort food?
5. If you won a million dollars, what would you do first?
6. Which song do you secretly love but would never admit to?
7. What’s the strangest dream you’ve ever had?
8. If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be?
9. What’s your favourite way to spend a lazy Sunday?
10. What’s one weird habit you have?
11. If you were an animal, which would you be?
12. What’s the worst fashion trend you ever followed?
13. Beach holiday or city break?
14. What’s your favourite smell?
15. Which celebrity would you want as your best friend?
16. What’s your favourite childhood cartoon?
17. Sweet or savoury?
18. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever eaten?
19. What’s your hidden talent?
20. Who’s the funniest person in your family?
21. What’s the best concert or event you’ve ever been to?
22. If you could master any skill overnight, what would it be?
23. Which emoji do you use most?
24. What’s your karaoke song?
25. Would you survive a zombie apocalypse?

Romantic questions

26. What did you think of me the first time we met?
27. When did you first realise you liked me?
28. What’s your favourite memory of us so far?
29. What makes you feel most loved?
30. What’s your idea of the perfect date?
31. What’s the most romantic thing someone could do for you?
32. Which song makes you think of us?
33. What do you love most about our relationship?
34. Where would you love us to travel together?
35. What’s one thing I do that always makes you smile?
36. What’s your love language?
37. Do you prefer big romantic gestures or small daily ones?
38. What’s your favourite thing about me?
39. What’s a date we haven’t done yet that you’d love to try?
40. When do you feel closest to me?
41. What’s something you’ve wanted to tell me but haven’t?
42. What are three words that describe us?
43. How do you like to be comforted when you’re upset?
44. What’s your favourite photo of us?
45. What would make our relationship even better?

Deep questions to ask your girlfriend

46. What are you most proud of?
47. What’s your biggest fear?
48. Who has shaped you the most?
49. What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever gone through?
50. What makes you feel truly at peace?
51. What do you wish more people knew about you?
52. What do you think your purpose is?
53. What’s a mistake you learned the most from?
54. What does happiness mean to you?
55. When do you feel most confident?
56. What’s something you’re still healing from?
57. What are you insecure about?
58. How do you handle stress?
59. What do you value most in a partner?
60. What’s one belief you’ll never compromise on?
61. What’s the best advice your mother ever gave you?
62. How do you want to be remembered?
63. What do you need from me when you’re having a bad day?
64. What’s one thing that always makes you cry?
65. What makes you angry?
66. What’s a dream you gave up on?
67. Who do you go to when you need advice?
68. What does respect in a relationship look like to you?
69. When was the last time you felt really proud of yourself?
70. What’s your relationship with your faith like?

Questions about the future

71. Where do you see yourself in five years?
72. What does your dream career look like?
73. Do you want to get married? When?
74. Do you want children? How many?
75. Where would you like to live long-term?
76. Would you ever move abroad for work?
77. How do you picture our life in ten years?
78. What kind of wedding would you want?
79. What kind of mother do you want to be?
80. What’s on your bucket list?
81. What would your ideal home look like?
82. What goals are you working towards this year?
83. How can I support your career?
84. What traditions would you want our family to have?
85. Would you want to study further?

Serious questions before marriage

86. How should money be handled in a marriage?
87. Do you have any debts or financial responsibilities?
88. Joint account, separate accounts or both?
89. How do you feel about supporting extended family financially?
90. How should we share household chores?
91. What role should faith play in our home?
92. How would you want to raise our children?
93. How do you feel about both of us working full time?
94. What’s your genotype and blood group?
95. How should we handle disagreements?
96. How involved should our parents be in our decisions?
97. What would you do if we struggled to have children?
98. What are your deal-breakers?
99. How do you feel about couples counselling?
100. What did your parents’ relationship teach you?
101. What do you expect from a husband?
102. How do you feel about my friendships with women?
103. Would you relocate for my job, or expect me to relocate for yours?
104. How do you feel about prenuptial agreements?
105. What would make you feel secure in our marriage?

Flirty questions

106. What’s the first thing you noticed about me?
107. What do I wear that you like the most?
108. When do you think I look my best?
109. What was going through your mind on our first date?
110. Do you ever think about me when you’re at work?
111. What’s your favourite thing about our kisses?
112. What’s one compliment you’ve wanted to give me?
113. If we had a whole weekend alone, what would we do?
114. What’s the most attractive thing about my personality?
115. What makes you blush?

Questions about her past

116. What were you like in secondary school?
117. What was your first job?
118. Who was your first crush?
119. What did you learn from past relationships?
120. What was your childhood home like?
121. What’s your favourite family tradition?
122. Who was your best friend growing up?
123. What did you want to be when you were little?
124. What’s the best year of your life so far?
125. What’s a moment that changed you?

Questions for a nurse girlfriend

126. Why did you choose nursing?
127. What’s the hardest shift you’ve ever worked?
128. What’s the most rewarding moment you’ve had with a patient?
129. How can I support you after a difficult shift?
130. Do you prefer to talk or switch off after work?
131. Which specialty would you love to work in?
132. Do you want to work abroad one day?
133. What do people misunderstand about nurses?
134. What helps you cope with stress at work?
135. What would your dream rota look like?

“Would you rather” questions

136. Would you rather have a big wedding or a small, intimate one?
137. Would you rather travel the world or own your dream house?
138. Would you rather live in the city or the countryside?
139. Would you rather cook together or eat out?
140. Would you rather have a night in or a night out?
141. Would you rather read my mind or have me read yours?
142. Would you rather never use social media again or never watch TV again?
143. Would you rather live by the beach or in the mountains?
144. Would you rather have a cat or a dog?
145. Would you rather always be too hot or too cold?
146. Would you rather relive your childhood or skip ahead ten years?
147. Would you rather have a surprise party or a planned celebration?
148. Would you rather receive a handwritten letter or a surprise gift?
149. Would you rather go on a road trip or fly somewhere exotic?
150. Would you rather spend a day doing nothing with me or a day doing everything?

Tips for great conversations

• Pick a few questions, not 20 in a row. Let it feel natural.
• Answer the questions yourself too.
• Listen more than you talk, and ask follow-up questions.
• Respect her answers, even if they’re different from yours.
• Save serious topics for calm, private moments.